Sunday Connection

Gospel Reading
Matthew 21:28-32
Jesus poses a question to the chief priests and elders on the meaning of obedience.

Making the Connection (Grades 1, 2, and 3)

Teach younger children that our actions are as important as our words and that we are called to be consistent in our words and our deeds.

Materials Needed

• None

Preparation for Sunday Scripture Readings

1. Say: Let’s play a game. Direct children to do an action. But as you say one action, do another. For example, you might tell children to raise their arms while you put your arms out in front of you or tell them to pat their head while you pat your shoulders. After a few turns, say: That was a bit confusing, wasn’t it? I told you to do one thing while I did another! And that was just a game!
2. Say: In today’s Gospel, Jesus teaches us that it is important that we are consistent in our words and our actions. Listen carefully to what he says.
3. Read aloud Matthew 21:28–32.
4. Say: The father asked his two sons to work in the vineyard. Ask: What did the first son do? (He said no but then changed his mind and went to work.) What did the second son do? (He said yes but then didn’t do the work.) Ask: Which son did what his father asked? (the first son) Why might the second son have said yes and then not done the work? (Accept reasonable answers.)
5. Say: Sometimes when we are asked to do something, we might say yes and then forget. Other times, we might have no plans to do what we are asked. We say yes, but we don’t mean it. Jesus teaches us that our actions are as important as our words. We are called to love and obey God in our words and in our actions. Take a moment and think of a commitment you will keep this week.
6. Close by praying together the Lord’s Prayer.

Gospel Reading
Matthew 21:28-32
Jesus poses a question to the chief priests and elders on the meaning of obedience.

Making the Connection (Grades 4, 5, and 6)

Many times a day children change their minds about their choices. Jesus teaches us that conversion requires a change of mind as well as a change of heart.

Materials Needed

• None

Preparation for Sunday Scripture Readings

1. Ask the group to think about a time when they changed their minds about some everyday thing. Invite them to name some examples. Ask them now to think about a time when they had a “change of heart” about something more important.

2. Ask: What is the difference between a “change of mind” and a “change of heart?” Which is more difficult? Jesus told a parable that talked about how people sometimes change their minds as well as their hearts. Let’s listen to this reading and see what Jesus was trying to teach us.

3. Invite one or more volunteers to read today’s Gospel, Matthew 21:28-32.

4. Ask: Which son do you think the father was more pleased with? Why? Which response would you prefer from someone? Have you ever heard the expression “Actions speak louder than words?”

5. Say: To change one’s heart is to have a conversion. Conversion is about professing the right beliefs about God, but it is also about changing how one acts. Jesus wants us to be converted to God, to act in ways that express our love for God and other people.

6. Pray together for the strength to obey God in actions even while expressing love for God with words. Pray together today’s psalm, Psalm 25, or the Lord’s Prayer.

Gospel Reading
Matthew 21:28-32
Jesus poses a question to the chief priests and elders on the meaning of obedience.

Making the Connection (Grades 7 and 8)

Young people at this age are alert to what they consider fake behavior. They are the first to catch discrepancies between what adults say and do. This Sunday’s Gospel reminds all of us to be consistent in our words and actions.

Materials Needed

• None

Preparation for Sunday Scripture Readings

1. Ask for volunteers to come forward to act out a short episode. Explain that you will give each of them a sentence to recite but that their facial expression and body language should express the complete opposite of what they are saying.Use the following:
   
   a. I’m very happy. (said with a frown/tears)
   b. I’m moving as fast as I can. (said while moving very slowly)
   c. Yes, I agree with you. (said while shaking his or her head No)
   d. I think that’s a great idea. (said while rolling his or her eyes)
   e. I’m calm; I’m very calm. (said while moving in a frenzy)

1. Thank the volunteers and say: If our words and our actions do not match, people will not believe that we mean what we say. That’s why we have the expression “actions speak louder than words.” In this Sunday’s Gospel, Jesus tells a story about the relationship between words and actions.

2. Have a volunteer read aloud Matthew 21:28-32.

3. Ask: Which son do you think the father was more pleased with? Why? Which response would you prefer from someone?

4. Say: Each Sunday, when we come to Mass, we say what we believe about God’s love for us and how we should love one another. When we leave the church after Mass, it is important that our actions match our words. What kinds of actions would match what we say at Mass? (Accept all reasonable answers.)

5. Conclude by praying aloud the Act of Contrition, asking God to help us to match our words and our actions.

Gospel Reading
Matthew 21:28-32
Jesus poses a question to the chief priests and elders on the meaning of obedience.

Family Connection

The example Jesus poses in today’s Gospel could have been taken directly from family experience. Each of us can recall instances in which family members spoke one thing but then did another. The point of Jesus’ story is to show that our actions speak louder than words, even with God.

As you gather as a family, talk about times when a family member said one thing and then did another. Acknowledge that sometimes the action taken displays a true change of heart. Then read today’s Gospel, Matthew 21:28-32. Observe that Jesus faulted the religious leaders for not allowing John the Baptist’s message of repentance to change their hearts and actions. The word we sometimes use for this change of heart is conversion. Jesus wants us to do more than pay lip service to the Gospel; he wants us to be transformed by his word.

Pray together that your family will experience a conversion to God and show evidence of this in both actions and words. Pray together today’s second reading, Philippians 2:1-5.